Blood is thicker than water, but that doesn't mean our friendships should take a backseat to our family relationships as we grow up.
血濃于水，但這不意味著在我們成長(zhǎng)過(guò)程中面對(duì)家庭關(guān)系時(shí)友誼就得靠邊站。

A new study has found that friendships can have a much greater impact on our overall health and happiness as we age than our families, suggesting that it's worth our while to invest in those relationships now, so they're with us for the long-haul.
一項(xiàng)新的研究發(fā)現(xiàn)，隨著年齡增長(zhǎng)，友誼對(duì)我們整體健康和幸福的影響要比家庭更大，研究表明我們現(xiàn)在值得把時(shí)間投入到友誼中，因此友誼才能長(zhǎng)久相伴。

"Friendships become even more important as we age," says psychologist William Chopik from Michigan State University. "Keeping a few really good friends around can make a world of difference for our health and well-being. So it's smart to invest in the friendships that make you happiest."
來(lái)自密歇根州立大學(xué)的心理學(xué)家William Chopik說(shuō)：“隨著年齡增長(zhǎng)友誼會(huì)變得更重要，身邊留住幾個(gè)摯友會(huì)影響我們的健康和幸福，所以明智的做法就是對(duì)使你最幸福的友誼進(jìn)行投資”。

To figure this out, Chopik analysed survey information about relationships and self-rated health and happiness from 271,053 participants across all age groups from nearly 100 countries around the world. He then compared the results to a separate survey about relationship support, relationship strain, and chronic illness, involving 7,481 older adults (median age 68) in the US.
為了弄清楚Chopik分析了關(guān)于友誼和健康幸福自測(cè)的調(diào)查信息，調(diào)查結(jié)果來(lái)自全世界近100個(gè)國(guó)家各個(gè)年齡段的271,053位參與者。然后他又對(duì)比了一份關(guān)于關(guān)系支持、血緣關(guān)系和慢性病的獨(dú)立調(diào)查的結(jié)果，這一調(diào)查涉及了7,481位美國(guó)老年人（平均年齡68）。

The first survey revealed that, overall, those who valued both their family and friendship relationships enjoyed greater health and higher happiness. But among the older participants, valuing friendships became a stronger predictor of health and happiness than valuing family.
第一項(xiàng)調(diào)查揭示了從整體來(lái)看，那些家人和朋友都重視的人健康和幸福指數(shù)都更高。但老年人中，重視友誼要比重視家庭更能預(yù)測(cè)健康和幸福狀況。

The second survey took this notion even further by revealing that friendships have a far greater influence on our physical and emotional state as we age than our family relationships.
第二項(xiàng)調(diào)查進(jìn)一步證實(shí)了這個(gè)想法，揭示了隨著我們年齡增長(zhǎng)，友誼比家庭關(guān)系對(duì)我們身體和精神狀態(tài)會(huì)有更深遠(yuǎn)的影響。

Interestingly, family relationships with people other than spouses and immediate children were found to have little influence on an individual's health and well-being in older adulthood across both surveys.
有趣的是，兩項(xiàng)調(diào)查都發(fā)現(xiàn)除了配偶和親生子女之外的家庭關(guān)系在老年時(shí)期對(duì)個(gè)人健康和幸福的影響微乎其微。

The results do reflect what many of us have likely already experienced, even before we hit 'old age' - we benefit from our friends because we get to choose the ones who make us feel happiest, whereas family can often come with inescapable baggage and stress.
調(diào)查結(jié)果確實(shí)反映了我們中很多人還未老就已經(jīng)體驗(yàn)到的感受，我們受益于朋友，因?yàn)槲覀兡苓x擇使自己最幸福的朋友，然而家人可能常會(huì)帶來(lái)不可避免的負(fù)擔(dān)和壓力。

A network of good friends was linked to a 22 percent reduction in the risk of dying during the 10-year follow-up period of the study, when compared to close ties with children or relatives. So while studies like these can't predict your future as an individual, they do provide some pretty valuable life advice: don't put all your eggs in one basket. Your family will always be your blood, but the friendships you make now could end up being an invaluable investment for your health and happiness later.
10年的研究隨訪期發(fā)現(xiàn)，相較于與孩子或親戚的親密關(guān)系，好的朋友圈會(huì)降低22%的死亡風(fēng)險(xiǎn)。所以雖然類似的研究不能預(yù)測(cè)你個(gè)人的未來(lái)，但確實(shí)提供了一些相當(dāng)有價(jià)值的人生建議：不要把雞蛋放在同一個(gè)籃子里。你的家人永遠(yuǎn)是你的至親，但你現(xiàn)在建立的友誼最終會(huì)成為你對(duì)未來(lái)健康和幸福所做的寶貴投資。

（翻譯：菲菲）

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