We want our first date to be perfect. We feel nervous, and tension is impossible to avoid. Do not worry! Your date is going through the same feelings and emotions.
我們都希望第一次約會(huì)很完美。我們以為緊張和不安是難免的，不要擔(dān)心！你約會(huì)的對(duì)象也有同樣的想法和感受。

1. Trying to Order a Perfect Dish
試圖為TA點(diǎn)一道好菜

Most women do not want to make mistakes while picking dishes. Simply order your favorites and enjoy your food! If the date goes wrong, then you at least will not be disappointed with the food choice.
大多數(shù)女孩不想點(diǎn)錯(cuò)菜。只點(diǎn)你最喜歡的菜就行，好好品嘗。如果約會(huì)不順利，至少不會(huì)對(duì)食物也很失望。

2. Looking for Hints and Clues
尋找暗示和線索

Being too?prejudiced?and?judgmental?is not ok. Looking for hints and clues helps us determine how compatible the person we are dating is.
有過(guò)多偏見、作出過(guò)多判斷都不好，尋找一些暗示和線索能幫我們確定約會(huì)對(duì)象是否適合相處。

3. Busy with Your Phone
刷朋友圈

An educated and intelligent person realizes that texting your friends while being with your date is impolite. Please do not sit at the table using your cell phone. This may offend the person you are on a date with.
受過(guò)良好教育和明智的人都知道約會(huì)時(shí)給朋友發(fā)信息不禮貌。千萬(wàn)不要坐在桌子旁擺弄手機(jī)，這會(huì)讓約會(huì)對(duì)象感覺不被尊重。

4. Staring
盯著看

Do not let your mind wander. Stay focused on what is being said to you by your date. Take part in the conversation. Avoid ending up staring at him. You will look silly.
不要走神，要注意聽約會(huì)對(duì)象在跟你說(shuō)什么，也要給出回應(yīng)。不要最后盯著對(duì)方看，這樣看起來(lái)很傻。

5. Trying to Look and Sound Witty
想要表現(xiàn)得幽默

Be yourself at all times. Let your date feel comfortable. Find some common topics to talk about and find out more about his interests.
你要一直做好自己，讓對(duì)方感覺舒服。聊一些雙方都感興趣的話題，多了解他的興趣。

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