Internet culture changes at a fast pace -- and so does online dating. Just like in the real world, there are certain styles and?approaches?to online dating.
互聯(lián)網(wǎng)文化以飛快的速度發(fā)生著變化-網(wǎng)上約會就是其中一種。就像在現(xiàn)實世界中一樣，網(wǎng)上約會是有一定的風(fēng)格和方法的。

Dating website Zoosk recently studied more than 430,000 profiles and nearly 4 million messages to conclude how the most successful online daters do it.
約會網(wǎng)站Zoosk最近研究了約會網(wǎng)站上超過430000份的個人簡介和近400萬的信息，整理出了最成功的人是如何進行網(wǎng)上約會的。

1. Chat At Night
晚上聊天

According to Zoosk, women prefer late-night chatting between 10pm and 11pm.
據(jù)Zoosk所言，女性喜歡在深夜10點到11點之間聊天。

2. Keep Up With The Lingo
跟上術(shù)語

Make sure you have at least a?cursory?understanding of?slang?terms, so that your conversations don't end with you writing "lol. What does that mean?"
確保你至少對俚語有個粗略的了解，這樣你們的談話不會以“l(fā)ol，這是什么意思？”而告終。

3. Kale Is Cool
健康是很酷的

Being healthy is cool -- one of the most used?buzzwords?in 2014 was?kale.
健康是很酷的—2014最常用的術(shù)語之一是“甘藍“”。

4. Choose Your Descriptors Carefully
仔細選擇你的描述方式

The most used?descriptor?for 2014 was "laid-back." If you're calling yourself "laid-back," make sure it's the truth. Or come up with something more interesting to describe yourself.
2014年最常用的描述詞是“隨意的”。如果你想用“隨意的”來描繪自己，就要確保這是事實。要不然就想出一些更有趣的詞來形容你自己。

5. Be Honest About Your Past
誠實地對待你的過去

It can be hard to sum yourself up in one?blurb, but there are things you can choose to say, and not say. Men who were honest and mentioned?exes?or?divorce?received 52% more messages than men who didn't.
在簡介中總結(jié)自己是件難事，但有些事情你可以選擇說或不說。誠實地提到過前妻或離婚的男性收到的消息比那些沒有吐露的多52%。

6. Smile!
微笑！

As a general rule, smiling makes you more attractive when you're looking directly at someone, according to Psychological Science.. So good to be smiling in your profile pic.
據(jù)心理學(xué)所言，作為一個普遍規(guī)律，當(dāng)你直視某人的時候，微笑會使你更具吸引力。所以，人物簡介的照片中最好是微笑的樣子。

7. Look Casual
表現(xiàn)得隨意點

We all know you don't wear that?sleek?tux?every day.
我們都知道你不會每天穿著時尚禮服。

8. Selfies Are Over
別再用自拍了

Zoosk found that selfies decreased messages received by 8% and suggest that you get a friend to take a full body shot, which increased messages received by a massive 203%. And Zoosk says the bathroom selfie, in particular, is out for 2015 (thank goodness).
Zoosk發(fā)現(xiàn)，自拍照會使收到的信息減少8%，它建議你讓朋友給你拍一張全身照，這樣收到的信息會大大增加203%。另外，Zoosk還說，尤其是浴室自拍，到2015年的時候已經(jīng)過時了。

9. Don't Hide
不要隱瞞

Men who "flew solo" in their photos received 42% and 53% more messages that guys who posed with friends or pets, respectively.
那些照片中只有自己的男性會收到的消息量比與朋友合照的男性多42%，比與寵物合照的男性多53%。

10.?Showcase?Your?Outdoorsy?Side
展示戶外生活的一面

Your profile pic is the first thing a woman will see when she lands on your page, so make sure yours is having a positive impact.
你個人資料的照片是女性來你頁面時看到的第一樣?xùn)|西。所以要確保你的照片能起到積極的影響。

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