We're feeling a little misty-eyed thinking about true love. Well, you can create your own relationship success by looking for the right traits in a woman instead of just swiping right on everyone on Tinder.
作為男生，我們有時(shí)會(huì)對(duì)真愛(ài)長(zhǎng)什么樣有些迷惑。如果基于以下10點(diǎn)特質(zhì)尋找，你就會(huì)找到完美愛(ài)侶，再也不用在Tinder上到處瀏覽。（Tinder是國(guó)外一款基于Facebook的手機(jī)交友APP）

1. She's Independent
1. 獨(dú)立

No one gets into a relationship to be a babysitter. If she's had a rough day at work, it's great to be her shoulder to cry on. But if she can't seem to function without you, you'll eventually suffocate, and if you're smart you'll run for the nearest exit.
誰(shuí)也不想變成另一半的老媽子。如果她今天工作超累，你很樂(lè)意提供撫慰的肩膀。但如果她離了你就不行，總有一天你會(huì)窒息崩潰的。你要足夠聰明，就趕快逃開(kāi)！

2. She's Intelligent
2.智慧

I hate to be the one to tell you this, but the bimbo routine gets real old, real fast. A woman who can meet you at an intellectual level is a total turn-on. An intelligent woman will constantly surprise you and keep you on your toes. She won't let you get bored or complacent.
我真不想提醒你，但女人易老如鮮花易逝。一個(gè)在智力上與你匹敵的女性才是真性感！智慧的女性會(huì)持續(xù)帶來(lái)驚喜，令人振奮！你不會(huì)無(wú)聊，也不會(huì)沾沾自喜。

3. She's Sexual
3.性感

For instance, if you're into S&M and she's more the "fluffy lingerie" type, that's a problem. The two of you have to be on the same page.
舉個(gè)栗子：你喜歡SM，她卻愛(ài)穿蓬松的內(nèi)衣，那可能是個(gè)問(wèn)題。在這點(diǎn)上得保持一致哦！

4. You're Attracted To Her
4.她吸引你

I know, this one is kind of obvious, but important nonetheless. Being seen with her should make you feel better about yourself. And this doesn't mean that she has to be a Heidi Klum clone. Your mutual attraction should make you both want to stay looking your best.
這個(gè)看起來(lái)顯而易見(jiàn)，但真的很重要！和她走在一起，你應(yīng)該感到自豪。不是說(shuō)她得變成海蒂·克魯姆（維密天使之一）的樣子，而是你們能互相吸引、持續(xù)點(diǎn)亮對(duì)方的優(yōu)點(diǎn)！

5. She Respects You
5.她尊重你

This is a biggie. A great girlfriend will keep major disputes private rather than taking you down in public. She'll make an effort to see things from your point of view (provided you do the same for her). The key here is that the respect be mutual.
這條重要了！一個(gè)超棒的女友是不會(huì)讓你在公開(kāi)場(chǎng)合下不來(lái)臺(tái)的，她會(huì)把爭(zhēng)議放在私下解決。她會(huì)努力理解你的觀點(diǎn)（我們假裝你也能理解她）。此處的關(guān)鍵就是：尊重是相互的。

6. She Lets You Be A Man
6.她讓你更Man

Do not -- I repeat -- do not get involved with a woman who tries to get you to eat cottage cheese and fruit for breakfast and insists that you give up poker night with the guys. You will end up resenting her more than you can imagine. If she's a great girlfriend, she'll even bring you and your buddies a couple of beers and make you some of her famous sandwiches.
千萬(wàn)不要-我重復(fù)一下-千萬(wàn)不要找一個(gè)早餐強(qiáng)迫你吃干白酪、水果，晚上不準(zhǔn)你打牌的女朋友，故事的最后你會(huì)懷著無(wú)比的憎恨離開(kāi)她。一個(gè)完美女友會(huì)在你和哥們相處時(shí)給你拿幾瓶啤酒，做幾份她秘制的三明治。

7. She Doesn't Nag Without A Good Reason
7.她從不空穴來(lái)風(fēng)地嘮叨

We've never met a man who was convinced to change his behavior because of his girlfriend's nagging. A great girlfriend knows this and chooses her battles wisely. However, if you live together and you stay out all night without calling her. This is a situation that nobody would let slide -- not even a great girlfriend.
我們從來(lái)沒(méi)見(jiàn)過(guò)哪個(gè)男人因?yàn)樗褔Z叨就改變的，好女友懂得如何溝通。當(dāng)然，如果你們同居了，而你居然不打招呼就夜不歸宿，再好的女朋友也不會(huì)忍受的。

8. She Gets Along With Your Friends And Family
8.她和你的親友相處甚歡

She'll help your parents out at Thanksgiving, try to understand your brother's twisted sense of humor. Your friends won't roll their eyes and moan when you mention that she'll be joining you guys when she gets off work -- she's one of the crowd.
她會(huì)在幫你爸媽一起準(zhǔn)備感恩節(jié)，試著聽(tīng)懂你兄弟曲折的笑話。你的朋友不會(huì)在聽(tīng)說(shuō)她要一起來(lái)玩時(shí)哀鴻遍野。她是你社交圈的一份子！

9. She Loves You
9.她愛(ài)你

If you have found a woman who loves you for who you really are and not who you pretend or try to be sometimes, you should definitely hang on to her.
如果你碰到一個(gè)女人，她喜愛(ài)你真實(shí)的模樣，而不是偽裝，一定要緊緊抓住她！

10.She Makes You Want To Be a Better Man
10.她讓你變成更好的男人

Any man who has a great girlfriend or wife will tell you that she makes him want to be a better man. She doesn't have to say or do anything; it just is that way. If you suddenly feel bad about how you treated your sister when you were younger or find yourself trying to get your finances in order to prepare for the future, you might want to think about your motivation for doing so. It could be love.
任何一個(gè)擁有好女友的男人都會(huì)告訴你，她讓他變成更好的男人！她不用說(shuō)什么、做什么，只是存在就讓他想變得更好！如果你突然為小時(shí)候?qū)Υ忝玫姆绞礁械桨没?，或正在為未?lái)打理自己的財(cái)務(wù)，你可以想一下觸發(fā)點(diǎn)是什么？沒(méi)準(zhǔn)是愛(ài)呢。

小編自評(píng)了一下，賤賤地給自己打了10分，咳咳。此處可以安利一個(gè)滬江的《戀愛(ài)訓(xùn)練營(yíng)》班，我們滬江居然連這樣的課都有了，我也是被震懾了一下。你若是上了有效，記得回來(lái)給大家個(gè)評(píng)論啊~