5、保持適當(dāng)?shù)难凵窠涣?/div>
Proper eye contact is important when you are talking to someone. If you maintain eye contact properly, people will feel important and be happy. Some people feel shy to maintain eye contact. That’s not a big problem. Start with your close ones. Maintain proper eye contact while talking to them. Then, try it with strangers.
與別人交談的時(shí)候,適當(dāng)?shù)匮凵窠涣骱苤匾H绻惚3至诉m當(dāng)?shù)难凵窠涣?,人們就?huì)覺(jué)得自己得到了你的重視并感到高興。有的人因?yàn)楹π叨缓靡馑急3盅凵窠涣?,這不是個(gè)大問(wèn)題,從你最親近的人開(kāi)始吧。跟他們交談的時(shí)候保持眼神交流,然后再在與陌生人的交談中嘗試。
#6 Walk Confidently
6. Walk Confidently
6、自信地走路
Be confident while walking. Do you know how to walk with confidence? Keeping your body relaxed and holding eyes and head up help you look confident. Making you look confident is a great part of being attractive.
走路的時(shí)候保持自信。你知道怎樣走才顯得有自信嗎?保持身體放松、直視前方、抬頭挺胸,這樣會(huì)幫助你顯得有自信。讓自己顯得自信是吸引人的重要一步。
#7 Smell Nice
7. Smell Nice
7、氣息怡人
No one likes one who smells bad. All your efforts to make yourself attractive can end in smoke if you smell bad. So be careful about this fact. Take shower every day and use
deodorant regularly. Brush your teeth properly. You may use
medication to get rid of bad breath.
沒(méi)人喜歡發(fā)臭的人。身體的異味會(huì)讓你所有增加魅力的努力付諸東流,所以對(duì)這一點(diǎn)要小心。每天洗澡,用體香劑,好好刷牙、甚至可以用藥物清除口氣。
#8 Be Relaxed
8. Be Relaxed
8、放松心情
Are you seared all the time thinking what others are thinking of you? If yes, you should fight to kick away this habit. Be confident and open yourself to others. Communicate with them and be easy. Nervousness isn’t liked. So, be confident and relaxed while dealing with people.
你是否總是為別人對(duì)你的看法焦躁不安?如果是的話,你應(yīng)該努力改掉這個(gè)習(xí)慣。保持自信,對(duì)他人敞開(kāi)心扉,放松地與別人交流。沒(méi)人喜歡緊張兮兮的人,所以跟別人在一起時(shí)要有自信并放松心情。
#9 Laugh and Make Laugh
9. Laugh and Make Laugh
9、常常笑,并把別人逗笑
There’s a saying, “l(fā)aughter is a good medicine”. When you laugh, people around you feel comfortable and are more likely to be happy with you. Laughter can make you look attractive. Most importantly, if you can make people laugh you make them happy. And you are treated with the same emotions.
俗話說(shuō)“笑是一劑良藥”。當(dāng)你笑的時(shí)候,你周圍的人會(huì)感到輕松愉快,還很可能會(huì)跟你一塊兒樂(lè)。笑會(huì)讓你更有魅力。最重要的是,如果你能把人逗笑,你就帶給了他們快樂(lè),你自己同樣也會(huì)感到快樂(lè)。
#10 Body Language
10. Body Language
10、肢體語(yǔ)言
Your body language is important. If you look busy in your body language, people are likely to avoid you. They will think that you don’t want to be disturbed. But if you are easy and relaxed, people will feel comfortable to approach you.
肢體語(yǔ)言很重要。如果你的身體語(yǔ)言讓你看起來(lái)很忙,人們就很可能會(huì)避開(kāi)你,因?yàn)樗麄儠?huì)認(rèn)為你不想被打擾。但是如果你看上去悠閑而放松,人們接近你就會(huì)覺(jué)得輕松愉快。
#11 Ask Questions
11. Ask Questions
11、提問(wèn)題
Don’t try to speak about you all the time. While gossiping with someone ask questions. But don’t ask anything inappropriate. When you ask questions, people think that you are interested to know about them and they feel important.
不要總是自己說(shuō)個(gè)不停,跟別人聊天的時(shí)候要提問(wèn)題,不過(guò)不要問(wèn)不該問(wèn)的東西。當(dāng)你提問(wèn)的時(shí)候,人們會(huì)覺(jué)得你有興趣了解他們,覺(jué)得自己受到了重視。
#12 Wear Bright Color
12. Wear Bright Color
12、穿鮮亮的衣服
Wear colorful clothes. Be careful to avoid some colors which can be inappropriate because of the tone of your skin or the
ambience of the place to go. Usually, bright colors attract people. You also look more confident.
穿色彩鮮艷的衣服。注意不要穿跟膚色不搭或者與場(chǎng)合氣氛不合適的顏色。通常鮮亮的顏色引人注目,也會(huì)讓你顯得更有自信。