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6. You Had Her Attention
你抓住了她的注意力

If she was enjoying the date, you had her attention. How much, if she was sitting there texting back and forth with her friends while you were together, that’s a bad sign.
如果她很享受這次約會(huì)的話，那你就贏得了她的注意。贏得多少呢？如果你們兩個(gè)在一起的時(shí)候，她一直坐在那兒跟朋友發(fā)短信的話，那就是個(gè)不好的信號(hào)。

If she was into the date, she would have avoided her phone. If she couldn't look away the whole evening and it made you feel like the most interesting man in the world, you had a successful first date.
如果她喜歡這個(gè)約會(huì)，她就不會(huì)玩手機(jī)了。如果她整晚都沒(méi)有看別處的話——好像你是世界上最有趣的男人，你的第一次約會(huì)就成功了。

7. Deep Conversation
更深入的對(duì)話

If you spent the whole date talking about both of your jobs and how the weather was last weekend, you probably didn’t hit it off. When you’re on a good date, you tend to get lost in the conversation, and before you know it the time has flown by. If every step of the way it felt like you were desperately trying to dig for something to talk about, it probably didn’t go that well.
如果你們整個(gè)約會(huì)都在談?wù)摫舜说墓ぷ骷爸苣┨鞖馊绾蔚脑挘銈儍蓚€(gè)也許沒(méi)能一拍即合。約會(huì)很順利的話，你就會(huì)談得很多，甚至都不知道時(shí)間過(guò)了多久。如果你每一次都是絕望地試著找話題聊，那這次約會(huì)就不順利了。

8. You Had A Lot In Common
你們兩個(gè)有很多相同之處

Finding common ground is definitely a great early sign that things went well on your date. It could be as simple as your favorite brand of breakfast cereal growing up or your unreasonable obsession with comic books. It shows that you were both comfortable enough to open up and share your interests, which can be challenging when you are just meeting someone. You don’t know how they’re going to react to your interests, so if everything goes smoothly here, this is a great sign.
發(fā)現(xiàn)相同之處絕對(duì)是你約會(huì)進(jìn)行地很順利的最早的信號(hào)。這也許很簡(jiǎn)單：比如你們從小到大最喜歡的早餐谷物牌子、或是你們對(duì)于漫畫書(shū)不可理喻的癡迷，這都表明你們兩個(gè)可以很好地敞開(kāi)心扉。對(duì)剛認(rèn)識(shí)的人分享興趣愛(ài)也許是個(gè)挑戰(zhàn)。你不知道她們會(huì)對(duì)你的興趣做出怎么樣的反應(yīng)，所以如果事情到這兒還是發(fā)展順利的話，一定是個(gè)好的信號(hào)。

9. It Started Well
有一個(gè)好的開(kāi)始

When you guys first said met and said your hellos, was there a connection right away? Did you feel comfortable pretty quickly or was it awkward for most of the night? Did it feel like she was trying to make it go smoother or did you have to do all the work? If she wasn’t feeling it, she probably didn't ask you too many questions, and didn’t try all that hard to lead the discussion anywhere. The early part of the date can be a good indicator, but even if things were a bit stale then, there’s still always the chance that things turned around later.
當(dāng)你們剛見(jiàn)面打招呼的時(shí)候，有沒(méi)有一拍即合？有沒(méi)有很快就覺(jué)得很放松了，還是說(shuō)整個(gè)晚上都覺(jué)得很尷尬？她看起來(lái)是不是在努力緩和氣氛，或者你一直都在一個(gè)人努力著？如果她不怎么喜歡這次約會(huì)的話，她可能不會(huì)問(wèn)你很多問(wèn)題，也不會(huì)試著去找話題。約會(huì)開(kāi)始的時(shí)候就會(huì)給你一個(gè)好的暗示，但是即便隨后的發(fā)展有點(diǎn)倦怠，也還是會(huì)有機(jī)會(huì)扭轉(zhuǎn)局面的。

10. Pre-Date Signs
約會(huì)前的信號(hào)

The things that happened leading up to the date can tell you a lot about how interested she was in the date in the first place. Did she show up on time? Did she reschedule it? If every other part of the date seemed to go south, you might want to look all the way back to the beginning to see if there were any red flags before you two even started your first date.
約會(huì)之前發(fā)生的事情會(huì)告訴你，最初她對(duì)這次約會(huì)有多大的感興趣。她準(zhǔn)時(shí)到了嗎？她跟你改時(shí)間了嗎？如果所有約會(huì)的其他部分都是糟糕的，那就往回看看最開(kāi)始，你們倆甚至還沒(méi)有第一次約會(huì)之前的時(shí)候是不是有什么危險(xiǎn)信號(hào)。