菜鳥戀愛指南:約會成功的十大信號(上)
作者:滬江英語
來源:互聯(lián)網(wǎng)
2015-07-06 13:50
1.The Follow Up
約會結(jié)束的后續(xù)
Generally speaking, once the date ends and you parted ways, chances are you told her something along the lines of “Text me when you get home to let me know you’re safe," or something to that effect. If she had a good time, there’s a good chance she’ll end up texting back and forth with you for a little while afterwards.
通常來說,約會結(jié)束你們分開走的時候,你就應該趁機告訴她類似于“到家的時候給我發(fā)個短信,告訴我你安全到家了,”或者一些能起到那種效果的話。如果她過得很開心的話,很有可能到家過一會兒就跟你來回短信。
If communication drops off entirely once you part ways, sorry to say, there’s a good chance she didn’t really have that good of a time and was just trying to save face and not make things awkward
如果你們分開走之后就完全沒有任何交流了的話,很抱歉地告訴你,可能她過得并不怎么愉快,之前都只是給你留面子,不想事情弄得太尷尬。
2.The Goodbye
道別
Chances are if she had a good time, she’s going to be open to or possibly even suggest potential future plans together. Maybe you guys talked about how you both haven’t seen that one movie yet, or dined at that restaurant yet, or there’s a bar that you should both check out. That’s a pretty obvious in for a date in the future, and if any of this type of conversation happened, your date went pretty well.
如果她過得很開心的話,她就會跟你一起談談甚至建議下一次的約會計劃。也許你們兩個會談到一部兩個人都沒看過的電影,或是兩人沒一起吃過的那家餐館,又或者你們倆應該去同一家酒吧看看。那就很明顯你們會有下一次約會了,如果有任何類似于這種的對話,你這次的約會就很成功了。
3. It Went On Longer Than Expected
約會時間比預期的要長
If you want to know if your first date was a success or not, take a look at how long it went on. When dinner, or whatever the first part of your date ended, did you ask her to go somewhere else? Did she say yes or no? These are the questions you need to ask yourself.
如果你想知道你的第一次約會是否成功,只要看看它持續(xù)了多久時間就行。晚飯的時候,或者你第一次約會結(jié)束的時候,你有沒有邀請她跟你去別的地方?她答應了還是拒絕了?這些都是你需要問你自己的問題。
If she did happily accompany you to whatever second?venue?you guys decided on, that’s definitely a good sign. It means that she at least wanted to see a little more of you and get to know you better.
如果她開心地陪你到任何你決定去的地方,那肯定是個好的征兆了。這就意味著她至少想多看看你,更好地了解了解你。
4. She Remembered The Little Things
她記得細節(jié)
If she was into you when she was on the date she likely paid a lot more attention to the little details, and also asked a lot more questions than she would have if she didn’t really care for you. So, if later on in the date you found that she remembered details that you mentioned very casually in passing, that’s definitely a sign that the date went well.
如果她喜歡你的話,你們約會的時候,她就可能會關(guān)注很多細節(jié)部分,同時也喜歡問你很多問題,如果她不是真的在乎你的話,她何必這樣做呢。所以,到約會后面部分的時候,如果你發(fā)現(xiàn)她記得那些你走路的時候隨意提到的細節(jié),那絕對是約會進行地很順利的征兆。
5. Her Body Language
她的肢體語言
If she wanted to impress you and you took her to a nice restaurant, there’s a good chance she tried to look extra nice. If you notice any of the more obvious, difficult-to-confuse positive body-language signals from her, you probably won’t be wrong in assuming your first date was a success.
如果你帶她去了一個很好的餐廳,她想讓你印象深刻的話,她很有可能會試著讓自己看起來很好。如果你注意到其中一點——她很主動地做出一些暗示尤為明顯的動作的話,你可能沒猜錯——第一次約會很成功哦。