【相關(guān)】如何發(fā)短信哄女朋友開心（上）

4. The “this is what makes you special to me” text
短信：“對(duì)我來說，這就是你的特別之處。”

If there’s one thing women will always love – aside from diamonds – it’s a compliment. Along these lines, if there are certain aspects about your girl you’re specifically into, don’t be afraid to let her know.
除了鉆石、如果有一種東西是女人永遠(yuǎn)喜歡的，那就是恭維。按照這個(gè)思路，如果你的女朋友哪方面特別吸引你的話，不要害怕讓她知道。

If anything, you should be more afraid of what you don’t say. A lot of times, men will try and play it cool, and women will mistake that for apathy.
正相反，你更應(yīng)該害怕的是有什么東西你沒說。很多時(shí)候，男人會(huì)試著?？?，可女人會(huì)誤以為你對(duì)她冷漠。

A random text letting her know you think she’s pretty or like the way she dresses can go a long way in letting her know you’re interested.
隨便發(fā)條短信讓她知道你覺得她很漂亮，或者你喜歡她那樣穿衣服，這可以讓她知道你對(duì)她感興趣。

5. The “I miss you” text
短信：“我想你”

If you do miss your significant other, it can’t hurt to let her know. Your girl will always love hearing you’re yearning for her, wherever you might be, and it will always make her feel special. You want your girl to feel special, don’t you?
如果你真的想念對(duì)你的另一半，那就告訴她。無論你在哪兒，你的女朋友永遠(yuǎn)都喜歡聽你說你想她，這也總能使她感覺很特別。你想讓你的女朋友感覺很特別，不是嗎？

6. The “I love you” text
短信：“我愛你”

Once you and your girl are on firm “I love you” terms, be generous with your application of the phrase.
一旦你和女朋友到了穩(wěn)定說“愛你”的階段，一定不要吝嗇說出這句話。

I can’t really think of a time of the day when a lady wouldn’t enjoy being told she’s loved, especially by someone who she’s expected to love, in return.
我真想象不到有哪個(gè)女人會(huì)不喜歡別人說愛她，尤其是從她喜歡的人嘴里說出來。

7. The “how was your day” text
短信：“你今天過得怎么樣？”

Usually, this text is?tossed?around in casual conversation with people you don’t really care about.
通常，這類短信被用在和你不太在乎的人隨意聊天中。

When you send this text to a girl you like – and your intentions are genuinely to find out how her day went – suddenly this text takes new shape.
而當(dāng)你給喜歡的女孩發(fā)這條短信時(shí)——你是真的想知道她這一天過得怎么樣——突然，這條短信有了新的意義。

When you ask how her day went, it’s one of the realest methods of showing a girl you actually care. After all, if you didn’t, I’m sure you wouldn’t care to know how her day went.
當(dāng)你問她一天過得怎么樣的時(shí)候，這是表達(dá)你真在乎她的最真誠的方法之一。畢竟，如果不在乎的話，你不愿意知道她一天過得如何。

8. The “I’m sorry” text
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When you’re invested in a relationship with someone, disputes are bound to arise. Hey, we’re humans, and humans are entitled to their own opinions – it’s just the nature of the business.
當(dāng)你投入一段感情的時(shí)候，你們之間一定會(huì)有爭執(zhí)。嘿，我們是人，人就會(huì)有自己的想法——這就是爭吵的本質(zhì)。

Once conflict arises, however, it’s important to extinguish it properly, so to speak.
然而可以這么說，一旦矛盾產(chǎn)生了，以合適的方式清除掉矛盾很重要。

If you have feelings for a woman, it’s best to try and take control over these conflicts yourself, as to not leave anything to chance.
如果你對(duì)一個(gè)女人有感覺，你最好試著控制這些矛盾，不要為任何沖突創(chuàng)造機(jī)會(huì)。

If you’re feeling uncomfortable about an argument the two of you might’ve had earlier, just take the?initiative?and apologize – even if there’s been some awkward silence for the past few hours.
如果你對(duì)之前你們之間的爭論感覺不舒服，那你就主動(dòng)一點(diǎn)，道個(gè)歉——即使在過去的幾個(gè)小時(shí)內(nèi)可能是令人尷尬的沉默。

This will show her you’re mature enough to swallow your pride for the good of your relationship, and she’ll always appreciate that.
這將向她表明你足夠成熟，能為了你們之間的愛情放下你的驕傲。她會(huì)永遠(yuǎn)欣賞你這一點(diǎn)的。