It’s 2015, and texting is an integral part of our lives – whether it’s pertaining to our regular ol’ friends or a girlfriend (or boyfriend alike).
現(xiàn)在是2015年，短信是我們生活中不可或缺的一部分——無(wú)論是發(fā)給工作上的朋友還是發(fā)給男/女朋友。

Whether we fail to accept it or not, the things we say through text messages – in many cases – are equally as important as those said face-to-face.
不管你是不是不愿意接受，但在很多情況下，我們通過(guò)短信傳達(dá)的信息和面對(duì)面說(shuō)的一樣重要。

For this reason, you need to be?deliberate?with the things you text her. After all, I’m sure you could relate to receiving a certain text that managed to brighten up your day after opening it up.
因此，你發(fā)短信時(shí)要深思熟慮。畢竟我敢保證，收到一條甜蜜的短信可以點(diǎn)亮你的一整天。

By putting more effort into the finer points of your relationship, like random texts throughout the day, you can show her you’re truly committed (or interested, if you’re not quite in the relationship stage yet).
為促進(jìn)戀愛(ài)關(guān)系多做一點(diǎn)努力，你會(huì)讓她感受到你的誠(chéng)意，比如說(shuō)在一天中隨性發(fā)一條短信。（如果你們之間還沒(méi)確定戀愛(ài)關(guān)系，這至少表明你對(duì)她感興趣）。

F*ck all that “sending signals” or “waiting for a sign” talk. If you like her – tell her. By trying to be too?cryptic?and mysterious, you might end up losing her in the process. Save that for the romantic comedies.
不要再糾結(jié)她是否有“給過(guò)你暗示”，也不要“等待她的暗示”了。如果你喜歡她就告訴她。如果你態(tài)度模棱兩可或者表現(xiàn)得過(guò)于神秘，那么很有可能失去她。省省吧，糾結(jié)來(lái)糾結(jié)去那些都是浪漫愛(ài)情喜劇里的橋段。

Here are the eight situational texts you should certainly be mindful of and how to go about them properly.
以下是8種場(chǎng)景下發(fā)送的短信，你應(yīng)該注意如何恰當(dāng)?shù)匕l(fā)送這些短信。

1. The “good morning” text
“早安”短信

You’re going to want to get a bit creative, here. Dive into your bag of tricks, as it’s the first thing she’s going to be waking up to in the morning. Make sure to stay away from generic sh*t like “good morning.”
這樣的短信你可能想要有點(diǎn)創(chuàng)意。嘗試一些小竅門(mén)吧，因?yàn)檫@條短信是她早上一睜開(kāi)眼睛第一個(gè)要看到的東西。你一定要避免“早上好”這樣俗套的東西。

Do you know how many?dudes?have probably texted her “good morning”? Exactly. You’re going to want to separate yourself from the pack, so to speak – and how are we going to do that? Bam, we’re gonna throw in a pet name.
你知道有多少哥們兒可能給她發(fā)過(guò)“早上好”嗎？一定有很多。這么說(shuō)吧，你想要和他們有點(diǎn)區(qū)別吧——那我們要怎么做呢？噢，我們要在短信里加上一個(gè)愛(ài)稱(chēng)。

Personally, I’ve always been a fan of “good morning sunshine,” as it paints some pretty mental imagery. It’s warm, not overly?provocative, and it’s also directly quoted from a Quasimoto song… so, yeah.
就我個(gè)人而言，我一直很喜歡這樣的短信“早安，我的陽(yáng)光”，因?yàn)樗枥L了很美的心理意象，是那種溫暖的、卻不太過(guò)分的感覺(jué)，這也是Quasimoto的一首歌里的歌詞…所以，這個(gè)很好。

2. The “I had a good time” text
短信：“和你在一起很開(kāi)心”

If you genuinely had a good time with a girl – whether it was on a date or after just meeting her for the first time somewhere – it’s super crucial to be vocal about it. Don’t be shy, big guy. We’re going to have to use our words.
如果你真的和一個(gè)女孩在一起覺(jué)得很開(kāi)心——無(wú)論是約會(huì)之后還是第一次在某個(gè)地方見(jiàn)到她之后——清楚地表達(dá)這種感覺(jué)都是超級(jí)重要的。伙計(jì)，別羞于表達(dá)。我們要好好利用文字。

Remember, if you don’t say anything, how will she know? Having said that, we all don’t have to be?wordsmiths?like Hank Moody in order to express ourselves.
記住，如果你什么都不說(shuō)，她怎么會(huì)知道呢？上面已經(jīng)說(shuō)過(guò)了，我們并不必像漢克?穆迪那樣舞文弄墨地去表達(dá)想法。

Keep it short and sweet and straight to the point. If you had fun with her, just say, “Hey, I really had fun with you last night.”
簡(jiǎn)短、甜蜜、直接地去表達(dá)。如果你和她在一起很開(kāi)心，就說(shuō)“嘿，我昨晚和你在一起真的很開(kāi)心”。

It shouldn’t really matter how specifically you choose to?articulate?it – as long as you’re clear-cut about your feelings. The ability to vocalize your emotions will show confidence, and girls will eat that sh*t up.
你的表達(dá)有多么特別真的沒(méi)太大關(guān)系——只要你把你的感覺(jué)描述清楚了。能夠說(shuō)出你的情感就顯示出你很自信，而且女孩也吃這一套。

3. The “I’m just thinking about you” text
短信：“我正在想你”

You’ll have to be?wary?of how liberal you are with this type of text. If you overuse it, you’ll risk making yourself sound a little bit creepy.
你要提防這類(lèi)短信措辭的自由程度，如果使用過(guò)度，你的短信有可能會(huì)讓人心生畏懼。

I mean, think about it; If her feelings aren’t 100 percent matched, it might make her a little bit uncomfortable knowing you’re “thinking about her” with any great frequency.
我的意思是，要考慮考慮；如果她對(duì)你不是100%有感覺(jué)，那她知道你在很頻繁地“想她”就會(huì)使她感覺(jué)有點(diǎn)不舒服。

Then again, if she’s into you – the same way you’re into her – this type of text will pay off in spades. It’ll tell show her she’s truly making an impact on you day-to-day, and you’re sensitive enough to recognize and appreciate it.
然而，如果她像你喜歡她一樣也喜歡你——這種短信肯定會(huì)很有效果，能使她知道她對(duì)你的影響與日俱增，你也敏感地意識(shí)到了這種影響、并且對(duì)此感到很喜歡。

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