1. BE YOURSELF
做自己

All of my tips will give you tricks and ideas, but I mean for them all to be enhancements of who you really are, not make you into someone you’re not. If you’re fake, it doesn’t matter if you get a guy to fall in love with you, because he won’t really be in love with the real you. So, my first idea is to always be myself, no matter what, so a guy likes me for me.
這些建議能提供給你一些技巧，不過我希望它們對(duì)你來說是改善自己的建議，而不是讓你變成另外一個(gè)人。不過你不夠真誠，那么不管哪個(gè)男生愛上你就都沒有意義了，因?yàn)樗麗凵系牟皇钦嬲哪恪Ｋ?，我的第一條建議就是無論何時(shí)永遠(yuǎn)做自己，這樣男生才會(huì)因?yàn)閻勰愣鴲勰恪?/span>

2. OPTIMIZE YOUR APPEARANCE
精心打理自己

Whenever I’m trying to be more attractive to someone, I always optimize. Now, this doesn’t mean I starve myself to look thin, buy tons of new clothes, or get a dramatic hair cut. Instead, I just try to make myself look my best. This means a cute outfit that emphasizes my best features, combed and fixed hair, a little makeup, a clean bright smile, and a spritz of light perfume.
當(dāng)我想要在某人面前顯得有魅力時(shí)，我總會(huì)精心打理自己。不是為了減肥讓自己餓肚子，不是買一大堆新衣服，也不是剪一個(gè)夸張的發(fā)型，而是努力讓自己看起來最好。我會(huì)選一套漂亮的衣服突出我的特點(diǎn)，梳理好發(fā)型，化一些淡妝，保持笑容燦爛，再灑上一些香水。

3. LISTEN, LISTEN, LISTEN
傾聽，傾聽，傾聽

Guys love to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen more than I talk when I was trying to attract a guy. Talk about yourself, current topics, news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let him control the conversation about 80% of the time.
男生喜歡說自己的事，他們覺得認(rèn)真聽他們說話的人非常有魅力。所以，當(dāng)我試圖去吸引男生的時(shí)候聽的總比說的多。用20%的時(shí)間談?wù)勀阕约?，最近的熱點(diǎn)話題，最新發(fā)生的事件，讓他們控制80%的談話時(shí)間。

4. LAUGH A LOT
經(jīng)常笑

Guys are drawn to girls with a great sense of humor, and I think humor always begins with a lot of laughter. So, I always tried to laugh a lot and be easy to please when I was trying to attract a guy. If I want a guy to fall in love with me, I make sure to laugh at all his jokes!
男生會(huì)被有幽默感的女生吸引，而我認(rèn)為幽默感的第一表現(xiàn)就是展現(xiàn)笑容。因此當(dāng)我想吸引男生時(shí)，我會(huì)經(jīng)常笑，表現(xiàn)得容易相處。當(dāng)我想要男生愛生我的時(shí)候，我會(huì)確保他每講一個(gè)笑話我都會(huì)用笑聲回應(yīng)！

5. HAVE A GREAT ATTITUDE
態(tài)度積極

In my experience, guys like girls with cheerful, sunny dispositions. No one likes to hang out with a pessimistic, negative person. So, I always try to look on the bright side of life and be a “glass half full” person when I’m trying to catch a hot guy. People always tend to look my way more often and gravitate toward me when I’ve got a smile on my face!
根據(jù)我的經(jīng)驗(yàn)，男生喜歡性情開朗的女生。沒有人想要和悲觀的人一起出去玩。因此當(dāng)我想要吸引很不錯(cuò)的男生時(shí)，我總是試圖從好的一面看待生活，而不是從悲觀的角度看待問題。當(dāng)我的臉上掛著笑容時(shí)，我的回頭率會(huì)更高，人們會(huì)更容易被我吸引。

6. BE SWEET
親切

Sometimes, I can be catty… all girls can be. When I’m with my girlfriends, we’ll gossip or trash some other girl for being rude or trashy, but that’s not a nice way to act. And, let me just tell you, I’ve learned that this kind of behavior doesn’t attract guys. Boys are drawn to girls who are sweet and don’t gossip, so keep cattiness and snotty comments to yourself around your new guy.
有時(shí)我是一個(gè)愛對(duì)人說三道四的女生…所有女生都是這樣。當(dāng)我和女性朋友在一起時(shí)，我們會(huì)一起鄙視那些粗魯?shù)呐?，不過這樣對(duì)人其實(shí)并不好。讓我告訴你吧，我發(fā)現(xiàn)男生不喜歡這樣的行為。吸引男生的是不在背后說三道四的親切的女生，所以在剛開始約會(huì)男生面前不要發(fā)表這些惡毒的評(píng)論，放在自己肚子里就好了。

7. FLIRT
調(diào)情

Some of my friends used to think flirting was beneath them, but I’m telling you – it works. Guys just love to be showered with attention and treated like a king. Toss your hair a little bit, throw your head back and laugh, grin a lot, and look up and him from under your eyelashes. Even those these old tricks might seem tried and true, they’re tried and true because they actually work!
我的一些朋友曾經(jīng)對(duì)調(diào)情很不屑。不過告訴你，調(diào)情其實(shí)很管用。男生喜歡別人給他大量的關(guān)注，把他當(dāng)成國王一樣看待。摸摸你的頭發(fā)，把頭發(fā)向后一甩然后對(duì)著他微笑，歪著頭看他。雖然這些看起來很老套，不過之所以老套是因?yàn)檫@個(gè)方法真的有用！

8. BE DIFFERENT
與眾不同

Trying to be unique and different is a way I’ve always tried to interest guys. I don’t want him to think that I’m just like all the other girls out there… instead, I want to be seen as charming, witty, and smart. So, I don’t talk about all those same old topics, like school gossip. Ask him about how he feels about current events or newsworthy stories and show him you’re worldy!
表現(xiàn)得與眾不同，這是我經(jīng)常用來吸引男生的方法。我不想讓他用看待其他所有女生的眼光來看待我，我希望他把我看成一個(gè)有魅力、風(fēng)趣聰明的人。因此我不會(huì)談?wù)撃切┮呀?jīng)被說爛了的話題，例如學(xué)校里的八卦等等。問問他對(duì)最近的熱點(diǎn)事件有什么想法，有什么有新聞價(jià)值的事件，讓他知道你是個(gè)關(guān)心時(shí)事的人！

9. BE WITTY
風(fēng)趣

As I said before, guys like a girl with a sense of humor. The best way to show you value humor is to laugh at his jokes, but I always try to crack a few jokes myself, too. Guys are drawn to girls with a funny side, and there’s nothing that draws two people closer than sharing a laugh. So, I always bust out a few comments or funny one-liners when I’m trying to draw a guy to me.
如剛才我所提到的，男生喜歡有幽默感的女生。顯示你有幽默感的最好方法就是用笑來回應(yīng)他說的笑話，不過我也經(jīng)常試著自己講幾個(gè)笑話。男生喜歡懂得幽默的女生，另外也沒有什么比一起大笑更能拉近兩人距離的事情了。

10. INITIATE PHYSICAL CONTACT
主動(dòng)身體接觸

Guys love physical touch, and touching someone is a quick way to develop intimacy. When I’m trying to attract a guy’s attention, I will look for ways to bring physical touch into play. For instance, I touch his arm lightly when I’m laughing at a joke, or I’ll slap him on the knee playfully if he says something funny, or I’ll touch his hand while I’m explaining something.
男生喜歡身體接觸，身體上的觸碰能夠讓兩人更加親密。當(dāng)我想要吸引男生注意力的時(shí)候，我就會(huì)想辦法發(fā)展一些身體接觸。例如，當(dāng)我聽到笑話大小的時(shí)候我會(huì)輕輕地接觸到他的肩膀，或者他在說一件趣事時(shí)我會(huì)拍拍他的大腿，或者我會(huì)在向他解釋一個(gè)事物時(shí)碰碰他的手。