關(guān)于對(duì)沒有聽懂或理解別人的意思時(shí)，一定要大膽的去問或讓對(duì)發(fā)重復(fù)，以達(dá)到話題的深入進(jìn)展，下面是一些 對(duì)話和一些對(duì)沒有理解別人的意思時(shí)的一些建議。
If you don't understand, don't hesitate to ask. Some Chinese seem to feel that it is impolite to ask questions even when they don't quite understand. However, it's much better to say that you don't understand than to pretend you understand and answer very vaguely. When you don't understand, or have a clock what was said, you may ask by saying any of the following. I beg your pardon? I am not clear on what you said. I am fraid I don't understand you. Would you mind saying it again? I am sorry I don't follow you. Could you repeat that? I didn't get it. You'll improve your understanding and the speaker will be happy to make his point again.
如果你不明白,請(qǐng)不要遲遲猶豫。 一些中國(guó)似乎覺得這樣很不禮貌,甚至在他們提出問題并不十分理解的時(shí)候。 然而,還不如再讓別人重復(fù)一次,因?yàn)槟菢颖饶慵傺b并很了解卻做出含糊的回答要好的多。 當(dāng)你不明白,或許你還有時(shí)間去問別人,你可以用以下面這些方式提出: 延續(xù)對(duì)話的開展： 您能再重復(fù)一遍嗎？我沒聽清您剛才說什么？ 我恐怕不能理解您的話？您能再重復(fù)一遍嗎？ 很抱歉，我跟不上您，您能再重復(fù)一遍嗎？ 我沒弄明白。 您也將提高你的理解能力，對(duì)方也將很高興再次重復(fù)他剛才說的觀點(diǎn)。