You’re going to want to make sure you’re with someone who can hold your attention and who still makes you feel fondly after the initial buzz has faded, right? That’s how all truly great relationships last rather than fizzling out. So I’ve rounded up the top 10 traits of a great girlfriend.
你想要確保交往對(duì)象能把你迷住，而且在最初的激情過后你還能對(duì)她有感覺，對(duì)吧？那就是所有真感情能維持而沒有一拍兩散的原因，所以我搜羅了好女朋友的10大特點(diǎn)。

1. She’s Loyal To You
她對(duì)你堅(jiān)貞不渝

This is a pretty fundamental requirement of anyone in a monogamous relationship. This goes beyond simply not cheating on you or flirting. She should stick up for you around other people.
在一夫一妻制的關(guān)系中，這一條對(duì)任何人來(lái)說(shuō)都是基本要求，這不僅指的是不能欺騙你或玩弄你，她還應(yīng)該在他人面前支持你。

2. She’s Herself Around You
在你身邊她會(huì)做好自己

One of the most crucial elements of successful long term relationships is that you can truly be yourself around each other. Sometimes this is physical，but, more importantly, it extends to how honest she can be with you about things that really matter to her, and how your behavior impacts her, too. So make sure you find a girl who can be up front with you.
一段成功持久的關(guān)系中最重要的要素之一就是你們能在彼此身邊真正做自己。有時(shí)是指身體方面的，但更重要的是體現(xiàn)在面對(duì)對(duì)她很重要的事情時(shí)她對(duì)你多真誠(chéng)，還有你的行為對(duì)她有多大影響，所以你要確保能找到一個(gè)對(duì)你坦率的女孩。

3. She Listens To Your Problems
她會(huì)傾聽你的困難

Make sure your girlfriend is compassionate enough to hear your problems and, even if she can’t always offer concrete solutions, she should at least be providing a shoulder to cry on.
確保你的女朋友足夠有同情心能傾聽你的困難，即使她不總能為你提供切實(shí)的解決方法，她至少應(yīng)該為你提供一個(gè)依靠的肩膀。

4. She Lets You Be Vulnerable
她讓你變得脆弱

Don’t be scared to cry or be soft and unguarded in front of her, and if you feel like you can’t or she’d mock you for it, she’s not the one for you.
不要害怕在她面前掉眼淚，或者表現(xiàn)出軟弱或毫無(wú)戒備的樣子。如果你感覺自己做不到或者她會(huì)因此嘲笑你，那她就不適合你。

5. She’s Got Your Back
她尊重你

You should be with someone who always speaks about you with respect. She’s allowed to criticize you, but pointless name-calling and attempts to shred your self-esteem shouldn’t ever be tolerated.
你的戀人在談到你時(shí)應(yīng)該尊重你。她可以批評(píng)你，但毫無(wú)意義的謾罵、試圖毀掉你自尊的行為就令人無(wú)法容忍。

6. She Shares Your Values
你們有共同的價(jià)值觀

You and your girlfriend don’t have to agree with each other on everything, but when it comes to your fundamental beliefs and values, you two should be aligned. These often take a little while to come to light.
你和女友不一定每件事都意見一致，但涉及到基本信念和價(jià)值觀時(shí)，你們應(yīng)該沒有分歧。這種默契通常需要一段時(shí)間來(lái)實(shí)現(xiàn)。

7. She Includes You In Her World
她允許你走進(jìn)她的生活

If your girlfriend has never so much as mentioned you to her friends and family, that’s cause for alarm and a sign that she might not be taking things as seriously as you are.
如果你女朋友從未正式把你介紹給她的朋友和家人，那你就要提高警惕了，這標(biāo)志著她可能不像你那樣把你們之間的關(guān)系當(dāng)回事。

8. You Find Her Attractive
你認(rèn)為她很迷人

This one’s basic: a great girlfriend will be someone you find physically attractive. You’re going to want your girlfriend to care about her appearance and feel good about how she looks, whatever shape or size she is.
這一條是最基本的，一個(gè)好的女朋友會(huì)讓你覺得很迷人。你想讓女朋友在乎自己的外表，并且無(wú)論她身材如何都能對(duì)自己的外表很自信。

9. She’s Kind To The People In Your Life
她對(duì)你身邊的人都很好

Respecting the people in your life is a sign that she wants to be more fully a part of it, so pay attention to how she speaks to and behaves towards the people who are important to you.
尊重你身邊的人標(biāo)志著她想更多地融入你的生活，所以你要注意她對(duì)那些對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)很重要的人的說(shuō)話方式和舉動(dòng)。

10. She Makes You Laugh
她會(huì)讓你笑

The best relationships have dynamic where both people in the partnership can make each other laugh, so make sure you find a girl who cracks you up from time to time.
最好的戀情會(huì)有一種魔力，戀愛雙方都能使對(duì)方大笑，所以你要確保自己找到了那個(gè)能不時(shí)把你逗笑的女孩。

（翻譯：菲菲）

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