What Are Some of the Dark Lessons That Life Showed You?
生活給你灌了哪些毒雞湯？

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獲得16.6k好評(píng)的回答@Vanessa Ying

1. Never tell people 100%, tell them 70% about yourself, and 30% should be hidden.
不要對(duì)別人全盤(pán)托出，只告訴他們70%，剩下的30%應(yīng)該隱藏起來(lái)。

2. Anyone you love can die. Any time. Cherish them.
你愛(ài)的每一個(gè)人隨時(shí)都可能逝去，請(qǐng)珍惜他們。

3. Fairness is unnatural. Nothing is 100% fair.
公平是違背自然規(guī)律的，沒(méi)有絕對(duì)的公平。

4. Live life the way you want to live it. Because even people who care for you can’t be with you every step of the way.
按照你想要的生活方式去生活，因?yàn)榧词故悄切╆P(guān)心你的人也沒(méi)有辦法陪你走旅途的每一步。

5. People only want to hear the good, not the bad.
人只喜歡聽(tīng)好消息。

6. Respect yourself, because people can see if you don’t.
尊重自己。因?yàn)槿绻銢](méi)有尊重自己，別人看得出來(lái)。

7. Everyone has a mask and they play different ones to different people.
每個(gè)人都帶著一個(gè)面具，對(duì)不一樣的人漏出不一樣的嘴臉。

8. Once you hurt someone, they’re not likely to forget. They will always remember how much you’ve hurt them. One negligible action can have devastating consequences.
一旦你傷害了別人，他們并不會(huì)輕易忘記。他們會(huì)一直記住你傷他們多深。一個(gè)微不足道的舉動(dòng)可能會(huì)帶來(lái)毀滅性的后果。

9. Appearances DO matter. We live in a condemnatory, judgmental world.
外表確實(shí)很重要。我們生活在一個(gè)非難的、評(píng)頭論足的世界。

10. It is impossible to please everyone. There will ALWAYS be someone who disagrees with you, and frankly, you’re not living life if you don’t have enemies.
不可能取悅每一個(gè)人?？倳?huì)有人不贊同你，坦白地說(shuō)，如果你沒(méi)有敵人那你就算不上在生活。

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獲得8.3k好評(píng)的回答@Prakarsh Chaurasia

Life is not about facebook likes, anymore.
社交網(wǎng)絡(luò)上的點(diǎn)贊并不是生活的全部。

No one cares about you during your failure except your family members.
沒(méi)有人會(huì)在你失敗的時(shí)候真正關(guān)心你，除了你的家人。

Success is the best revenge. No one gives a shit when you're nothing.
成功是最好的復(fù)仇，當(dāng)你什么都不是的時(shí)候，沒(méi)有人會(huì)在乎。

Health is wealth, no matter how much you earn or how much you are focused towards your career, never ever ignore your health.
健康就是財(cái)富，不管你可以賺多少錢(qián)、多專注于工作，永遠(yuǎn)不要忽視你的健康。

Money and education matter in life.
錢(qián)和學(xué)業(yè)很重要。

Sometimes you have to give up on people. Not because you don't care, but because they don't.
有時(shí)候你不得不放棄了某些人，并不是因?yàn)槟悴辉诤?，而是他們并不在乎?/div>

Never ever judge a book by its cover.
不要單憑一本書(shū)的封面就去評(píng)價(jià)它（不要以貌取人）。

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