面試中:如何利用肢體語(yǔ)言給自己加分
作者:kathy
來(lái)源:互聯(lián)網(wǎng)
2016-08-15 22:43
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在面試者,求職者的肢體語(yǔ)言也能為自己加分,同時(shí)也能造成不好的影響,所以,求職者在面試中注意自己的肢體語(yǔ)言,以免留下不好的影響。本文整理了面試中幾個(gè)可以為自己加分的肢體技巧,包括眼神、姿勢(shì)等肢體語(yǔ)言,對(duì)大家有所幫助。
?一、Speak in a deeper voice. When you're nervous or excited, your voice may come out in a higher pitch. Take a deep breath and lower your pitch, because a deeper voice is considered to have more authority and confidence. In fact, even dogs respond better to deeper voices when you are trying to give them a command.
一、用較低的聲音說(shuō)話。如果你很緊張或是很興奮,你的聲音往往會(huì)變得很高。做個(gè)深呼吸降低你的聲音吧,因?yàn)檩^低的聲音會(huì)被認(rèn)為具有更多自主權(quán)和自信心。事實(shí)上,就連狗狗也會(huì)對(duì)更低的聲音更有反應(yīng),當(dāng)你給它們下命令的時(shí)候。
二、Keep?eye contact. You don’t want to have your eyes wandering the room looking for an exit, but you also don’t want to fix a laser-like stare into the interviewer’s soul. If there’s more than one person in the room, make eye contact with each person. And don’t stare at the mouth or forehead. In fact, don’t stare, period. Remember to blink, please!
二、眼神交流。東張西望固然不好,可也不要盯著面試官的眼睛。如果房間里還有其他人,要和每個(gè)人進(jìn)行眼神交流。不要盯著別人的前額或嘴巴。記住,眨眨眼睛!
三、Sit up straight,。but not so straight it looks like you’re craning your neck to the ceiling. And of course, don’t be so relaxed that you slouch. This looks messy, disrespectful, and lazy.
三、坐直身體,但不要太過(guò)僵硬,好像你的脖子被吊在了天花板上。當(dāng)然,也不能太過(guò)放松,坐沒坐相,表現(xiàn)的萎靡慵懶,目無(wú)尊長(zhǎng)。
四、Lean. Move your body slightly forward toward the person you're talking to. This reflects interest. However, if you want to show that you're relaxed, lean back a little bit. Don't overdo the leaning or it may either look like you have no idea of what personal space is if you lean forward too much or make you look uninterested and uppity if you lean too far back.
四、身體微傾。讓你的身體向?qū)Ψ轿⑽⑶皟A,這反映了你的興趣。同時(shí),如果你想要表現(xiàn)你很放松,就微微向后傾一些。不過(guò)不要傾斜得太過(guò)了,不然會(huì)讓你在前傾時(shí)顯得不尊重他人的私人空間,在后傾時(shí)又顯得不感興趣或者太自負(fù)。